Little did I know when I thought I knew a
lot about Japan but being here for four months (which is not enough), I realized my knowledge about Japan has
obviously been through the etic point of view which is purely stereotypical and
aesthetic generalized. There is so much more about Japan than just what we see in the media
of course but also during observation. What we see is not always what we see.
We choose if we want to contemplate it and by doing so, we choose to
participate in it and that is when you are truly learning by interacting and
not only by watching. I never thought of that before until I enter Anthropology
classes. Everything I do suddenly has more meaning as it brings open-mindedness,
creativity and the ability to change things and to take new ventures. I like to
think that my experiences are long-term orientated as you emerge, you learn and
you tend to forget (short-term perspective) but it will always be there
(long-term perspective). What I have gain through my experiences in Japan has
not only affect my perception of the country itself but of how I view other
cultures as well. In fact, it made me understanding the world rather than
myself. It has changed my inner world and quite frankly it made me feel pretty
darned small.
Looking back in my previous impression of
Japan, I recalled their over-politeness behaviour. Politeness is only a common
sense and it won’t get you close to people. We are not
interacting here as the politeness is only a form of impression. We normally don't
contemplate it and we tend to let it go. So through my impression of their
behaviour, I found it hard to imagine a prospect relationship with the Japanese
people because of their over-politeness. We have referred them as robots but
that is of course not true as their politeness doesn't necessarily mean that they don't want to further develop the relationship between them and you. If you can break that ice of politeness, they are
as human as everyone else. It's not a
matter of the restriction of this polite form, it's a matter of trust and you can achieve that through interaction
that will certainly bring you closer to the people. Remember Japanese people do
want to interact with us, more than you can imagine. So from this day, I'm glad to say that I can see a
long-term relationship with my Japanese friends.
Here's a video I made of people in Japan.